Comments for Dating Tips For Finding Love

Comment on Space in a Relationship – How Much Do You Need? by Shoshana Jackson

Shoshana Jackson — Fri, 11 May 2012 15:41:10 +0000

I read your article and it did provide some really good points, and some were funny, but true. Strangely enough, being a woman sometimes you don’t recognize when you’re doing these things. That’s also true when it comes to giving each other space, especially since the amount of space needed varies from couple to couple. But you’re right a guy should be able to play soccer without his girlfriend.

Thanks for the comment.
~Shoshana

Comment on Space in a Relationship – How Much Do You Need? by Our Long Distance Relationship Story

Our Long Distance Relationship Story — Sun, 06 May 2012 16:04:03 +0000

Man Man, this is a great article. I have always hated the idea of being smothered. Some people don’t understand that in relationship people needs just some times to do things that they really like without being bothered. I like to play soccer and normally it’s the only time I get to be with me and just the boys. Luckily for me I don’t have a girlfriend that’s really the smothering type but I know of guys that can’t do anything without their girlfriend or wife. And that’s really annoying. With all these things in mind that kind of prompt me to write an article about the things that man hate about women

Space in a relationship is really required, well not the space where people get to go out there and do whatever they want. But the space where you have some free time to yourself to read a book, play sports, watch a show that you want just you if that’s your wish.

Comment on Chemistry or Attraction: They Can Stop You From Finding Love by Shoshana Jackson

Shoshana Jackson — Sun, 29 Apr 2012 22:05:48 +0000

Your story shows that you never know who you’ll find love with. If you go into your search for a relationship looking for perfection you’ll be disappointed. You should always think about what you want in a relationship before you start looking.

Unfortunately many people get distracted by “attraction and chemistry,” however as you said you would have never though that you’d have chemistry with your husband. That’s why it’s important to give the “not so perfect” men a chance. You may not think he’s perfect for you, and you may be wrong. I’m glad you took the chance and found love with your husband. Thanks for the comment.

Comment on Making A Great First Impression…Are You Sending the Right Message? by Shoshana Jackson

Shoshana Jackson — Sun, 29 Apr 2012 21:46:53 +0000

The problem for most women is finding the right guy. But you’re right the supposed “rules” of dating don’t work for every relationship. You have to find what works for you. Thanks for the comment Frankie.

Comment on A Bad Boy or a Good Guy, Which One Are You Looking For? by Shoshana Jackson

Shoshana Jackson — Sun, 29 Apr 2012 21:43:26 +0000

I believe every woman has their own definition of a good guy and a bad boy. That being said I believe most good guys have some bad boy habits. It’s up to each woman to decide if she’s willing to put up with them.

The woman who wrote the article obviously believes that the things she listed are important. They’re all examples of a way for a man to show that he appreciates the woman he’s with. I’m sure she’s not saying you should serve burnt cookies on a regular basis to test your man’s love or dump a guy who doesn’t pre-plan dates.

Most women don’t want a man to kiss their a**, but we do want to be respected and appreciated, the same as a man does in a relationship. We know even the best guy can have bouts of forgetfulness, however they usually try to make up for those lapses in memory. Disagreements will happen, but in the end a good guy will work with you to resolve the problem. That’s what I feel is a major difference between the good and bad guys.

As you can see I agree with the general idea of your comment. There are no perfect “good guys” who never make mistakes and if women are looking for one, they’re bound to be disappointed. Thanks for the comment, it’s always nice to hear a man’s perspective.

Comment on First Date: How to Tell if a First Date Should be your ONLY Date by Shoshana Jackson

Shoshana Jackson — Sun, 29 Apr 2012 21:30:00 +0000

I enjoyed your article. You give women a few things to consider when looking at a man as a potential partner. Thanks.

Comment on A Bad Boy or a Good Guy, Which One Are You Looking For? by M

Sat, 14 Apr 2012 00:01:59 +0000

“The Good Guy is portrayed as virtuous and stable in ways that suggest these qualities are dull.” I completely disagree with this. Why don’t women get it that the “good guys” can also have bad boy sides/tendencies to them? I consider myself a good guy (definitely stable) but at the same time I have bad boy tendencies i.e. (smoking in the boys room), putting tacks on your teachers seat to sit on, blowing up your high school best friends parents toilet with M-80′s (when they were still legal) blah blah blah.

“He appreciates the cookies you baked, eating every crumb – even the burned parts! He brings flowers for no reason and never forgets your birthday. He plans wonderful dates and trips, but never on the spur of the moment.”

Ok some of this is BS and only the sappy kiss your a**, kiss your feet guys are like eating every crumb even the burned parts and never on the spur of the moment crap. These guys are the total cheesy guys, the ones that never like to get into arguments, never likes disagreements. The never forgets your birthday that one can go both ways, even the good guys could have sh*tty memories and not remember your b-day. The spur of the moment is totally fun to do. It’s good to get into arguments and have disagreements cause you figure out obviously what each likes, dislikes and just plain sucks to agree on everything.

Comment on First Date: How to Tell if a First Date Should be your ONLY Date by Candida Abrahamson

Candida Abrahamson — Sat, 31 Mar 2012 14:59:04 +0000

These are helpful tips for what to look out for. I also did a post on warning signs on early dates, and perhaps the two pieces serve as complements to each other, interesting in what they have in common, and–more so–what is different between the two. Perhaps have your readers check out “‘I Should’ve Known!’: Warning Signs That Your Partner Is Ungiving, Difficult, or Just Plain Awful” at http://wp.me/p22afJ-RN for some more ideas of when your first date should be your only. Some of the signs are subtle, but you’ll be glad later.

Comment on Make Up Or Break Up: Do You Really Want To Be With Your Man by Shoshana Jackson

Shoshana Jackson — Sat, 24 Mar 2012 14:35:59 +0000

I’m so happy for you Suzan. I’m glad you found someone who was able to support you through what must have been a very difficult time in your life. Having that support is so important. You prove that when two people are willing to work on their relationship, they can be successful.

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