If you’re like most single women you’re on a quest to find Mr. Right. That seemingly elusive man who’s perfect for you. One obstacle to finding Mr. Right is the idea of Mr. Perfect.

So who is Mr. Perfect? He’s the image of the perfect man for you that you carry in your mind. Perfect height, perfect looks, the right income, career and personality. Everything that you want a man to be. But the problem with Mr. Perfect is that in the real world he probably doesn’t exist. No one’s perfect, some people can pretend to be, but in the long run we find that everybody has their faults. So in order to find your Mr. Right you need to get rid of the idea of Mr.Perfect and focus on the qualities and traits that are really important to you. When you do that you may find that Mr. Right is already in your life.
One way to get rid of Mr. Perfect is to narrow down your deal-breaker list to the things that are really important to you. If you met your Mr. Right and he was 2 inches shorter Read the rest of this entry »
What is the secret to magnetic attraction? How do you build strength, self-confidence and relationship stamina? How does attraction really work for men? These are just a few of the questions that will be explored on Feb. 24 at 7:30 PM (ET) on a free UPGRADE Your Love Life teleseminar by Relationship Coach Cathy Bishop.
As a single woman learning about magnetic attraction can sometimes make the difference between Dream Dates and Dating Disasters. Men and women approach dating and relationships differently and knowing how to recognize these differences and understand how the men you date think you can UPGRADE Your Love Life.
You won’t find me promoting many teleseminars on my blog, but this one is different. I not only had the privilege of being a student at Coach Training Academy at the same time as Cathy, but I have also been lucky enough to have used her as my dating coach. So, I’m really looking forward to this call.
Note: I am NOT receiving any compensation for promoting this program. As I said this is someone that I have personally received coaching from and I believe in the quality of the work she does.
We all know what New Year’s resolutions are. The commitment you make every year to change, to do things differently, to make positive habit and lifestyle changes. I’m a believer in making resolutions especially when you set them as goals not just wishes. Wishful thinking won’t get you anywhere, but goal setting can take you anywhere you want to go.

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That’s why I decided to make a Valentine’s Day resolution. I know where I want to be, relationship-wise, next year and I know what changes I need to make in order to get there. After a two month dating detox, I figure now is the time to get back in the game and what better day to start than Valentine’s Day.
So, I guess you’re wondering what kinds of things can you put on your Valentine’s Day Resolution list. Well here are a few, some of these are mine, and some are ideas I got from friends of mine who I brought onto the Valentine’s Day Resolution bandwagon.
1. Update my online dating site profiles. New photo. New Profile. Read the rest of this entry »
Filed Under (How To Date Online) by Shana on 11-02-2010
I just posted an article on Associated Content called How to Master the Art of Online Flirting. There are millions of people registered for the various online dating sites, not to mention the number of connections people are making through social networking sites like Facebook. Although many people have become very skillful at navigating the online world, not many have mastered the art of online flirting. No one wants to give the wrong impression and online it’s easy to do. There’s no body language or visual cues. Just your words. But there are ways to flirt effectively and still create the right impression for your prospective date while you’re chatting online.
Check out the article and come back and tell me what you think.
Filed Under (How To Date Online) by Shana on 11-02-2010
eHarmony is a great site for finding love and this weekend starting today Feb 11 until Feb 15th you can communicate with your matches for free. eHarmony uses a Compatibility Matching System which narrows down your matches to those who you’re most compatible with based on their 29 Dimensions of Compatibility.
If you’ve comsidered using this site before and wanted to try before you buy or if you just want to meet someone this weekend this is a great opportunity. So, go to eHarmony and get matched with some great men.
Note: This is not an affiliate link. I do not get paid if you click it. This is a really great site and this free communication offer is to good to pass up.